Good morning
Today is our first day with nothing planned. *cheers*
Rob is off until Wednesday, and today we will start getting our life back into normal.
hahahahaha
Rob, Zeria, Kaylin and Jamari ran the fun run yesterday. Its 3.2 miles with several hills. Rob came in fourth this year. He was a bit urked as he passed this kid at the bridge and he was far behind and just at the finished line the kid had a second gear. Rob never has a second gear just a nice steady pace.
Zeria sprained her foot on Tuesday of last week in her aunts pool. She managed to do a dress rehearsal, a recital and a parade on it. But was in tears at the end of each. She has been planning for the fun run for months even trained with it for Rob. So it was excrutiating for her when she realized she just wasn't going to be able to do it. She was in tears within the first half mile due to pain in her foot. She managed 2.5 miles before she decided to quit. Jamari quit at the same time. See you have to run past the finish line do a mile loop and come back. When they got to the finish line they both stopped. Jamari is ONLY seven, and didn't want to run on his own. And Zeria was in pain. So we encouraged them as best we could.
Kaylin however. Oh my word. She didn't train, she just really wanted to do it. And did it she did! She only stopped running for drink breaks. She ran the whole 3.2 miles. And smiled the whole stinking way! Smiled. We were very proud of her.
Which made Zeria mad.
Of course.
So we worked on our sportsmanship attitude, and she was able to tell Kaylin good job.
And then we had another wee-melt-down later that night.
The problem was is I was running support for all of them. Zeria is going to be 11 on the 18th. Kaylin is 8. I saw that Zeria was *almost* to a drink station and doing well. But I hadn't seen Kaylin in a good five minutes. Which meant I had a 8 year old running by herself. Jamari was with Zeria and I knew she'd watch for him. So I made the choice to check on Kaylin. When I got to the finish line I saw Rob had finished and told him Z and S were right behind me, so he said he'd go run with them. (We'd discussed that he'd finish out with the kids after he ran his race.) I then went and caught up with Kaylin and played support for her for the last mile.
Zeria felt that this showed favortism.
Ugh.
I think somewhere in the back of her mind she believes that she would have kept running if "I'd" been her support. Although she never came out and said that. But I can only split myself into so many pieces. LOL
So we re-talked about favorites and sportsmanship and moved on.
Normally Kaylin and Zeria are VERY good friends. But its a bit overwhelming to recognize your 8 year old sister just whomped your butt. When Zeria quit Kaylin was over 3/4's of a mile ahead of her. Jamari was lagging behind her. But Zeria had a very sore foot. And pushed herself through tears for almost 2.5 miles. That to me is amazing. I don't do pain. I don't like it, and I don't get high on it. Unlike Rob. So we praised her, and we move on.
Parenting is hard work huh?