April 24, 2006
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Wommie this is the long reason behind wanting the video game machine. This isn't the only article, but it was one that made me think out of the box. Currently sitting still looking at a book for my extremely ADHD son is not on his high priority list. But video games are. He's still gonna be required to sit in front of them stupid old books. But if I can trigger his learning in other ways--man I'm a gonna try.
First of all Samuel absolutely LOVES them.
The article is here
If you give a kid a Nintendo…
by Mary Gold
“But he’ll just play video games all day! He’ll never DO anything!”
How many times have I heard that statement? The conversation usually begins innocently enough. “Joey is begging for a Nintendo, but I don’t know…” We talk awhile about what game systems are in my house. We dance around the subject of prices or system capabilities. We question the accuracy of the game ratings. Then the real question makes itself known. The frantic question. The big roadblock to unschooling question. “But won’t he just play all day?” My answer is always the same, a definite maybe. But not forever. And it’s never just about the playing.
So, what to really expect?
Well, if you give a kid a Nintendo, he is going to want to play it, maybe non-stop for awhile. There is a mission, an objective, a puzzle to solve and he’s hooked. But at some point he will realize that he has gone as far as he can go on his own, and so the search begins. The first stop will probably be the game manual. Since the manuals are written on an adult level, he is going to ask you for some help with unfamiliar words Once he has skimmed through the manual, and talked with some more knowledgeable friends, he will realize that he can do much better with some cheat codes. Time to go online. He will have to do a search and read through pages of results in order to find just the right site. Be prepared to answer questions about the internet, search engines, and maybe even Boolean logic during this process. You don’t remember anything about Boolean logic? Don’t worry, there won’t be a test. (hint: Should this ever really come up, it has to do with the mathematical logic used in internet searches.)
Once he gets to the game site, he will quickly find out that it also contains pages of facts about the game, a back story to the plot, a history of each of the characters, and places to get books and magazines with even more information. He momentarily forgets about the cheat codes. “Hey Mom…..!” You take him to the store to pick out the best magazine he can find. After annoying the store owner by thumbing through each one, he finally makes his decision. You head home, where he proceeds to read away the remaining hours of the afternoon. There are lots of great tips in there. Plus ads for new games! “Hey Mom…!” You explain to him the realities of a real, working family budget, so he starts figuring out how he is possibly going to save $59.99. You will, of course, point out the existence of sales tax and how it works. He will redo those numbers.
When he tires of playing around with his finances, he might remember there was something totally terrific he just had to tell you about his game. He will tell you for what seems like the fiftieth time that day about another character, another plot line, all the villains, how they differ from the heroes, what level he is on and how he got there. He will cover it all, in detail, and you will never again doubt his verbal skills. He might also recall a similar character in a story you read together last year. This will lead to a cool discussion comparing the different storytelling techniques found in various types of media.
If he’s a doodler, he may try to capture all of those great characters on paper. One day you will notice that he has filled an entire notebook with his attempts at drawing Pokemon, Mario, Dragonball Z, and Zelda. You will be amazed when you find that there is actually a book called How to Draw Nintendo Characters.
Suddenly, he remembers those cheat codes! Back he goes to the web site to start reading all over again. When he finds just the right codes, he'll have to write them down so he can bring them back to his game. When the codes don’t work, he’ll go back and realize he copied something backwards. “Geez, Mom…” He will comment to you on the importance of accuracy. When he’s back at the site, he’ll notice that there are also some cheat codes available for his computer game. He’ll want to try those out too. Oops, did he spell “infinite power” wrong? Spelling turns out to be very important in his real world of gaming.
At this point, he will realize he is still not sure what the cheat codes do or when to use them, so he will start experimenting. He will try all the variables until he figures out just the right combination to get the best results. Obviously he will now have to use the phone. His friends will need to be informed of this critical piece of information. Oh and maybe a quick email to his cousin in New York and his grandfather in Florida. This is big news after all. He is on his way to beating the game!
Of course, he is now so stoked that his thoughts will start racing back to that new game. A new challenge. A new puzzle to solve. A new world to conquer! He may start checking eBay to see if he can bid on some of those games for cheaper than the $59.99 list price. He will have to read around, though, to figure out how eBay actually works. Be prepared to explain auctions and bids and such to him. On and on he goes, comparison shopping around different stores, online sites and used game shops. Just how cheaply can he score that new game? And, oh no, it requires an expansion pack. More research, and more figuring on how to squirrel up just a little bit more money.
While all of this is going on, he may also be exchanging ideas with friends, gaming online with more experienced players, joining a local gaming club, developing an interest in Japanese anime, attempting to program his own game or creating an entirely new world while story boarding a game plot. I know, because I’ve seen all of these things happen in my house and the houses of countless other game enthusiasts.
So, what to expect when you give a kid a Nintendo? Expect imagination and interest and excitement and passion. Expect a virtual unit study, disguised in a video game box. But please don’t tell your child he’s been practicing reading, writing, spelling and math. Don’t let on that he has been exploring art, economics and cultural studies. Let’s keep this our little secret. He thinks he has just been playing.
Comments (7)
we have tried different tactics on limiting game playing time - if not, the boys would literally live in front of their video games. they play only on friday evening (after dinner) and all day saturday but only after they read for 30-min and practice their instruments - plus they go outside for at least 30-min in the afternoon. otherwise, i always know where to find them.
one caution about these things - we have problems with our ADHD/ODD son on sundays - after he has played games all day on satuday, he is very edgy and fidgets alot and picks fights with anyone and everyone in the family - we think this is related to his brain having to readjust to normal thinking, not just responding to the games. so be careful - it can make things better but it can also make things worse.
With caleb--it becomes obsessive (he's his father's son after all ROFL) BUT with Rachel, I can see a game system as a good thing. She does get tired of it quicker, not sure why, but she doesn't tolerate it as long as Caleb. Plus, for her it could be a good learning tool to help fill in with her reading and other skills. I just remember as a kid being frustrated by learning games because you had to be fast to "win" the game and if it was a new skill level, I couldn't think fast, I was thinking through it too much to make it fun. LOL
As far as the comment above mine...I see that some in my kids too. Too much time in front of games or the t.v. results in worse behavior. When I cut the screen time down or to none on a given day, they suddenly become nice kids again.
Never have figured that out, and they of course don't notice, but I do. Unfortunately I've resorted to the screens (both t.v./movies and games) more lately since I've banned their outside time to next to nothing until we move. LOL I'm really not sure which is worse now.
But they "recover" faster from the screens than the neighbor kids so it's the screens for 1 more week. LOL
I understand the reasoning behind both. We have planned times for tv in this house. And hour about 11:30 for mommy to take down time. And a half hour at 4 cause the kiddos are addicted to Scooby Doo.
Samuel will be told from the get-go there will be a time limit per day (with a timer) for the game. Rob and I are still discussing what that time limit will be.
And actually my kids have those melt downs after Awana go figure. I hate Thursdays because they just can't handle the stress of it. Its one of the major reasons I know they'd NEVER survive Public School. Not that that's the only reason I homeschool, just one of many.
I guess I'm just used to kids who learn more about violence and hurting others through playing electronic games. I also teach little children who can't think of something imaginative themselves but only ever want to write or draw about characters from games.
Have you used online games with him? Educational ones? Does he respond well?
I hope it all works out well for you.
He LOVES educational games--and actually begs for them.
we noticed that when the older boys first came to our family, they could not think of anything fun to do that did not involve tv or video games - or they could not build stuff with legos or knex without a pattern - they had little or no imagination - our other son has a remarkable imagination but he has been limited from the start on gameboy and video game playing. now after some time wtih us, the older boys have developed their imaginations and they play and build things without prewritten instructions.
THAT is Will! I even tried...asked him to do very specific things with the toys and he can't/won't do them. It is soo weird. And I *thought* mine watched too much t.v.?? LOL They at least know how to play. He's going to be in for a rude shock after we move and the t.v. time is non-existant while he's here. LOL
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